We had Weston's school conference yesterday. That kid is such an animal, we weren't sure what to expect... Fortunately, he is passing the Infant D room with flying colors! Well, he hasn't learned his colors yet, but he's passing anyway :)
Ms. Kristy, one of his amazingly patient and loving teachers, said Westy is very interested in group time. He expresses this by being an active participant - always eager to clap his hands during songs, flash a smile during silly books, and sit "nicely" on the group-time rug for as long as 15 minutes. The whole hand clapping and smiling part doesn't surprise us...but sitting nicely? Who
is this kid?! When they are done playing a game involving props, Kristy has each child take a turn putting one of the props away (like slipping a card back into a file folder). Apparently Weston recently picked up (literally) on how to complete this task and thinks it's just great. Maybe that means he's going to keep a very clean room when he's older? Hmmm. A mother can hope.
A couple areas for improvement include using sign language to express emotion and using a sippy cup to drink his milk. And yes, everyone involved here realizes he's not even a year old yet, so we are giving him some time to get the hang of it all. He has 11 more days and then we're cracking the whip. Ha!
The problem is that he's lazy and feisty. Lazy in the sense that he wants others to do everything for him...like hold a bottle in his mouth...so when handed a sippy cup, he screams and throws it to the floor. Total rage. And feisty in the sense that any time he needs to communicate something to us, such as "more please!" or "I'm done!" or "help!", he screams. Again, a total rager. If he's on the floor, he will instantly fling himself forward, bonk his forehead into the ground, and pound his fists and feet. He'll look up to make sure we're watching and then do it again. How do we respond? Usually with laughter because it really is hilarious! He's such a little spaz. Tanner and Miles think it's funny to say, "Westy, use your words!" I think Weston understands them because then he starts laughing. Ugh...it's all a game, isn't it?!
So we'll keep encouraging Weston to use the appropriate signs and smother him with praise when he does. Once in a while he'll do it, so we know he's capable. Just stubborn. We feel like Miles had the sign language thing down for months before turning one, but...then again...that boy has always been an over achiever in the communications department. I'm pretty sure he was using Morse code in the womb.
Some people snicker over the fact that Kids Korner does parent/teacher conferences for infants. They wonder why babies have "teachers" in the first place (aren't they too young?) and wonder what on earth we could possibly talk about during a conference... Well, we love it. You'd be surprised at what you can learn about your child from the people who care for them 40+ hours each week! They are learning about how things work in the world around them, they're becoming more self-aware, and learning how to cooperate and play with others. We're forever in debt to the ladies that have helped both Weston and Miles grow. I like to think that if I had the ability to stay home with them during the day, they'd be the smart, respectable young men they are today...but the reality is, it takes a special kind of person to do such a job :)
We are still in denial that Weston is turning one year old this month. He brings so much joy to our family -- he's a wild, roaring (yes, he roars!), sweet, usually gentle, silly little boy. More often than not he looks like this:

And sometimes like this:

Here's how he looks at school:

And on his big brother's hot rod:

Here's to you, Westy! Keep up the good work in school! For the next 18 years! We love you.